You Wanted This.
Ash BGYou wanted a family. You didn't want this. Honest conversations about marriage, the mental load, and raising kids without losing each other (or yourself)
| Platform |  | Pricing | Freemium | Publishes | Twice weekly |
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| Issues | 58 | Founded | 8 months ago | Last Issue | 5 days ago |
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Here Is What Your Life Would Look Like If Men and Women Were Actually Equal
I wake up and hear our little one calling out. It’s still dark outside. Then I hear footsteps making their way down the hall. My husband has got it. I roll over and fall back to sleep soundly.
When I wake up properly a couple of hours late...
I Never Judge Other Mothers. Except For This One Thing...
I mean it when I say I don’t judge other mothers.
If you’ve been reading my work for a while now you know I’ll happily judge a dad all day long, until the fucking cows come home. But never a mum. I wholeheartedly trust that she is doing wh...
So You've Tried Fair Play But It Didn't Work. Here's What To Do Next.
The three reasons Fair Play fails and a practical guide on what to do instead.
I have a pet peeve.
Women Are Having Less Babies And Men Are To Blame
Welcome to You Wanted This. I started this publication because when I became a mother, every time I dared to complain, the world reminded me that this is what I wanted.
So I created a space where both things get to be true. Where you can a...
Are Women's Brains Just Wired Differently? Here’s What the Research Actually Says.
Why do men find it so difficult to understand the mental load?
Welcome to You Wanted This. This essay is part of my paid series on the mental load. Every week I share a real story, the research behind it, and something practical you can ta...
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Just an Aussie mum who loves to whinge on the internet. Building Tether: the mental load app. Talking about motherhood, the manosphere, the mental load and what relationships really look like after kids.
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