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The Dating Optimist

Paul the Optimist

Challenging tired dating myths one graph at a time—and giving you an edge in San Francisco’s weird and competitive dating market

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Latest Issues

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Oops, You Creeped Her Out. What Now?

Throughout this series, we’ve looked at common behaviors that make women uncomfortable. Based on the interviews with women in San Francisco, we identified and looked at Following, Lying, Physical Overreach, and Lingering. The goal was to re...

20 days ago
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Is it Still Creepy When He's Hot?

This question came up constantly in online arguments, and surely it was raised in the discussions of the previous posts in the “It’s Easy to Not Be a Creep” series. Time for us to answer it:

a month ago
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She Shouldn't Need to Tell You

Let’s continue the It’s Really Easy to Not Be a Creep series from the last post, where we look at how well-intentioned men appear creepy and learn how to avoid that. This post focuses on two more frequent behaviors: Physical Overreach and L...

a month ago
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It is Really Easy to Not Be a Creep, Part 1: Following and Lying

Women consistently say that they want to be approached more when they’re out and about [Date Psychology 2024]. Not just on the apps, but at bars, coffee shops, grocery stores (cue in Marina Dateway). So why aren’t men doing it?

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