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By Your Own Measure

Athlete. Lifelong Stoic — less common when you're female. I write about living by your own standard, not the one handed to you. Failure, difficulty, occasional clarity. Honestly. No tidy resolutions. The obstacle is the way. I'm just taking notes.

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