Decolonizing Love
We explore how colonialism shaped relationships, then practice new ways to love.
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The Vessel: Taking a Compassionate Pause in Polyamory
Why temporary polyfidelity isn’t monogamy, and how to use it to stabilize your relationship.
Sometimes polyamorists take a break from dating new people to help support their existing relationships. It’s called a vessel. A term coined by Je...
The Neurodivergent’s Guide to Polyamory: Autism, ADHD, BPD, NPD & PTSD
A practical framework for managing sensory needs, setting boundaries, and thriving in non-monogamous relationships.
Walk into any polyamory meetup and you’ll notice a lot of us are neurodivergent. That isn’t a coincidence.
Surviving Online Harassment Campaigns Designed to Destroy You
From right wing mobs to leftist call out culture.
On August 14th 2026, in the South London district of Battersea, Professor Jason Arday’s body was found dead in his home. The senior coroner has said that Professor Arday died an unnatural d...
Ways Indigenous People Relate Differently from Western Norms
Many Indigenous societies offer radically different, and often healthier, more fluid models of relationships than the Western ideal of the monogamous nuclear family. In the West, monogamous marriage has historically functioned less as a rom...
Designing Custom Polyamorous Milestones Beyond the Relationship Escalator
Freedom can be daunting, when you leave a familiar path. Here are some ideas to help you on your journey.
For some of us, polyamory is freedom. Freedom to be authentic, to pursue self actualization in every direction it wants to go, whenev...
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I’m Millie an artivist, and I look at the effects of decolonization on relationships, and using prefigurative politics, theorize on news ways to relate.
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