The Relationship Anarchist
The official substack for The Relationship Anarchist, Dr. L. Xochitl Vallejos
| Platform |  | Pricing | Freemium | Publishes | Twice weekly |
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| Issues | 113 | Founded | 3 years ago | Last Issue | 11 days ago |
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You love me, but you won’t protect me
I have been thinking about all of the places I have left. I don’t mean physical places but work environments, professional organizations and activism spaces. The painful but familiar essence is the particular pain that comes with speaking u...
No Gods, No Masters
When I started studying existential psychology in depth, one of the concepts that resonated most deeply with me was the idea that freedom and responsibility are intricately intertwined. We can only be as free as we are willing to be respons...
We Need a Revolution in Love
For years, I worked in social justice, liberation, and DEI awareness spaces, trying to help people understand the dynamics at play so they could interrupt them. In late 2024, I stopped talking about social justice after a series of things h...
Erotic Wholeness as Existential Revolt
Anaïs Nin wrote erotica for a man who paid her by the page and told her to cut the poetry. In the introduction to her book, The Delta of Venus, she wrote that “I long felt I had compromised my feminine self” in order to entertain a man. Sim...
The Erotics of Freedom + Responsibility
I was talking with a friend about our practices of relationship anarchy, non-monogamy and other liberated love practices and how often people fail to realize that these practices are not meant to cultivate hedonism, but rather to cultivate...
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Liberation is only theoretical if it never reaches the bedroom, the movement, the family + home. Relationship anarchy is the practice of bringing that liberation all the way down into the actual texture of how people live and love.
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