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Unlearnt Competence

Lily Wilken

Motherhood, work, and learning to become more of myself as life changes

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My resentment knew the truth.

This is the third piece in the Village of Two series. The first, on why some of us chose the distance from family, is here. The second, on what it actually costs to be a Village of 2, is here.

Nobody tells you that resentment will be pa...

21 days ago
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What it costs to be a Village of Two

This is the second piece in the Village of Two series. The first, on why some of us chose the distance, is here.

My son was two years old.

My husband had just left for London on an early flight. I had actually encouraged him to sta...

a month ago
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Breaking the generational cycle cost me my village

Dedication: For the mothers caught between the cost of a village that isn’t safe and the cost of not having one at all.


Five days. That’s all it took.

Last week we went back to my home country, and my parents came to visit us....

2 months ago
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Book That Appointment

I got the letter this week.

The biopsy was benign.

Benign.

Such a small word for something that can hold so much weight.

I was surprised by the degree of relief I felt.

Because even though, for a change, I wasn’t allowing myself to...

3 months ago
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The Capacity Traffic Light Explained

Sometimes the simplest and most intuitive framing ends up being the most helpful.

The Capacity Traffic Light came about almost by accident.
It stuck. And it’s been the language we’ve used in our family ever since.

I mentioned it recent...

3 months ago
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