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How You See Your Body Follows You Into Bed

A huge chunk of what happens during sex is filtered through how we see our bodies. How they look, what we’ve been told, comparisons, criticisms, and all the ways we’ve been picked apart.

We think we’re making conscious decisions about sex...

7 days ago
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Their Touch Shouldn't Disgust You

Touch is instinctive and adaptive. By that I mean the way we receive it. And the way we experience it.

Instinctive because we need it to survive. Adaptive because we adjust to the quality of touch being offered.

The way you lean in a litt...

14 days ago
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Predictability Might Be F*cking up Your Sex Life

Most of us spend so much time building safety (nets) that we are fucking up desire.

Bold statement, I know. But that doesn’t make it less true.

See, the thing about desire is it needs mystery and novelty, which is basically the antithesis...

21 days ago

Why You Can’t Let Go in Bed with the Person You Love

In our minds, we want wild, uninhibited sex. We fantasize about letting go and getting lost in the throes of pleasure.

But when it’s time to get naked, with the person who’s seen you ugly cry, argue with the delivery guy, and pick your boo...

a month ago
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Your Body Is Here, but Are You?

We have a gazillion stories about why sex stops feeling good in LTRs. We talk about fizzled attraction and long‑gone thrills. We blame time, responsibilities, kids, and bills (although kids and bills do cockblock, j/s).

Sometimes they’re j...

a month ago
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