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Unfiltered conversations about intimacy, desire, and relationships after 40. Every week, you’ll receive a new podcast episode. Twice a month, a thought-provoking essay that challenges how you see love, sex, commitment, and yourself.

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Latest Issues

How Long Will You Wait for That Invoice?

You think you’ve moved on because you changed your emergency contact. But then you hold your breath whenever your partner sighs.

When the price of admission in your previous relationship was guilt and a scoreboard, healthy love feels like...

7 days ago
1

What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?

The shit hit the fan, then they bounced. Love wasn’t enough. Maybe you tried to work it out. They probably tried too. Or not.

Either way, it ended.

They moved on. And you did too. Mostly.

Days stretched into weeks, months, maybe even yea...

14 days ago
2

Are You Actually Honest About the Kind of Truth You Can Handle?

99% of the time (this is a totally made-up statistic, BTW) when we say “be honest,” we really mean—don’t lie.

Sometimes we mean don’t disagree, disappoint, or make me see you differently. Am I right?

Honesty is a lot more nuanced than we...

21 days ago
2

Married Cheater ISO Sex. What If You Just Need to Feel Seen?

Unpopular reality: a lot of married people on dating apps are not looking for sex.

Okay, it’s true they’re often clueless about their actual desires. And they’re going about getting their needs met in a potentially disastrous (and harmful)...

a month ago
3

What If the Sex You're Mourning Wasn't as Good as You Remember?

Most of the people I know beyond 40 get plagued by the used to’s.

We used to be all over each other. We used to be passionate. We used to have sex ALL the time. She used to look at me with lust in her eyes. He used to make me feel like I w...

a month ago
2

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