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Unfiltered conversations about intimacy, desire, and relationships after 40. Every week, you’ll receive a new podcast episode. Twice a month, a thought-provoking essay that challenges how you see love, sex, commitment, and yourself.

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Remember When Empty Space Used to Get Filled with Touch and Intimacy?

Life used to have a lot more nothing in it.

In waiting rooms and grocery store lines. The few minutes before the movie previews started. That long stretch of road void of everything but scenery. The space between arriving and whatever come...

7 days ago
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Why Does My Partner Piss Me off and Make Me Horny AF at the Same Time?.

Sometimes long-term love gets heavy.

After a while, romance is no longer the ignition switch. Perpetual motion sets in. Infrastructure and routine keep things mostly humming along.

They know where the extra batteries are. You remember the...

14 days ago
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A New Person Can Make You Feel Desired. But History Makes You Feel Known.

We love a good rebrand. The pivot. The glow up. The fix that brings that old thing back.

We try to use this same marketing hack in long-term relationships. Buying into the myth of the do-over fix. We convince ourselves that if aging or dom...

21 days ago
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How Long Will You Wait for That Invoice?

You think you’ve moved on because you changed your emergency contact. But then you hold your breath whenever your partner sighs.

When the price of admission in your previous relationship was guilt and a scoreboard, healthy love feels like...

a month ago
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What If Wanting Them Back Is a Survival Instinct Instead of Love?

The shit hit the fan, then they bounced. Love wasn’t enough. Maybe you tried to work it out. They probably tried too. Or not.

Either way, it ended.

They moved on. And you did too. Mostly.

Days stretched into weeks, months, maybe even yea...

a month ago
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