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Sex IRL

Stacey Herrera
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Unfiltered conversations about intimacy, desire, and relationships after 40. Every week, you’ll receive a new podcast episode. And sometimes, a thought-provoking essay that challenges how you see love, sex, commitment, and yourself.

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Latest Issues

What If Love Isn't the Missing Piece?

Here’s an uncomfortable truth: you can love someone and still be unable to make the relationship work. #FACTS

Sometimes there’s no obvious villain. Betrayal or lack of commitment isn’t part of every story. Timing and circumstances sabotage...

39 hours ago

Is Having Less Sex the Real Mvp for Healthy Longterm Relationships?

When did we decide that sexual frequency is the best way to measure relationship success?

Seriously. It’s right up there with the idea that longevity means you beat the odds.

We hand out trophies for 50th anniversaries, like surviving fiv...

9 days ago
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Why Must We Make Sex Such a Big F*cking Deal?

Confession: I have had sex with people I wasn’t interested in being in a relationship with. Or seeing ever again, if I’m keeping it 💯.

But that didn’t stop me from feigning interest.

Like so many of us, I thought catching feelings was su...

16 days ago
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The Myth of Accessible Intimacy: Seeing Sex Work as Essential Social Care

Most of us unconsciously see intimacy as universal and accessible to everyone.

We have built cultural narratives around the idea that love, acceptance, and even touch are naturally occurring resources. Things that just magically appear if...

23 days ago
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How Come Relationships with Good People Feel Unbalanced?

What does it mean to be a good person?

Socially speaking, good people possess morals and ethics, and are well-intentioned. In other words, being a good person means not being an asshole, at least not on purpose.

But sometimes… good people...

a month ago
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