
Unfiltered conversations about intimacy, desire, and relationships after 40. Every week, you’ll receive a new podcast episode. Twice a month, a thought-provoking essay that challenges how you see love, sex, commitment, and yourself.
| Platform | Pricing | Freemium | Publishes | Weekly | |
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| Issues | 127 | Founded | 4 years ago | Last Issue | 7 days ago |
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You think you’ve moved on because you changed your emergency contact. But then you hold your breath whenever your partner sighs.
When the price of admission in your previous relationship was guilt and a scoreboard, healthy love feels like...
The shit hit the fan, then they bounced. Love wasn’t enough. Maybe you tried to work it out. They probably tried too. Or not.
Either way, it ended.
They moved on. And you did too. Mostly.
Days stretched into weeks, months, maybe even yea...
99% of the time (this is a totally made-up statistic, BTW) when we say “be honest,” we really mean—don’t lie.
Sometimes we mean don’t disagree, disappoint, or make me see you differently. Am I right?
Honesty is a lot more nuanced than we...
Unpopular reality: a lot of married people on dating apps are not looking for sex.
Okay, it’s true they’re often clueless about their actual desires. And they’re going about getting their needs met in a potentially disastrous (and harmful)...
Most of the people I know beyond 40 get plagued by the used to’s.
We used to be all over each other. We used to be passionate. We used to have sex ALL the time. She used to look at me with lust in her eyes. He used to make me feel like I w...
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