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...So That Happened

Ashley Manta

My musings, adventures, misadventures, and critical self-inquiry as I navigate sex and dating as a certified sexologist.

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Why Accuracy Matters When We Talk About Rape

Content warning: This post discusses rape, drugging, sexual abuse by intimate partners, and online spaces where sexual violence is normalized and shared. Please take care of yourself.

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I’m a survivor of multiple rapes, all of which w...

13 days ago

Reflections on turning 40

I remember my dad’s 40th birthday. I was 10. We had a big party at my house and friends and family from all over Pennsylvania came to celebrate my dad. The decor was all tombstones and vultures and “over the hill” vibes. The adults got tras...

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“I’m Dominant” Is Doing a Lot of Heavy Lifting Here

The post in the screenshot has been getting a ton of engagement, which makes perfect sense to me. I think a lot of women have had some version of this exact experience:

Yep. That.

Because most of us have met that guy. He lets you know he’...

2 months ago
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The Problem With Treating Orgasm Like the Point of Sex

I think one of the most quietly damaging ideas in modern sexual culture is the belief that sex is supposed to go somewhere specific.

Usually that “somewhere” is orgasm.

Preferably on cue. Preferably in a way that is obvious enough to coun...

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He Was Having Sex With My Avatar

I remember the first time I read “people pleasing is manipulation.” I was aghast. Horrified. Indignant. NO IT IS NOT, I grumbled to myself. Manipulators are bad people. They try to control others. That is definitely not what I’m doing when...

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