The Demure Hedonist
I was raised in excess and married young — now I’m divorced, rebuilding, and writing it all down. These are essays from a life shaped by contradiction, reinvention, and the quiet chaos of becoming someone new.
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The Man I Love, The Life I’m Not Sure I Can Live
I did not expect to fall in love.
Not in any serious way. Perhaps a small love, something light and easy.
Instead, I fell deeply.
When you come out of something that broke you open, you become cautious with your heart. Not closed exactly...
The Cost of Being “Enough”
I once heard that narcissists don’t go after weak women.
They go after strong ones.
Strong women try to fix.
They examine themselves.
They wonder what they could do better, how they could adapt, how they might save the situation if t...
A new role: Learning to say boyfriend.
So it’s official. I’m a girlfriend again. I have a boyfriend.
Strange and slightly childish words to hear coming out of my mouth. Equal parts excitement and low-grade panic.
We’ve been dating for three months, and it feels unlike anything...
I Almost wish he’d cheated.
Sometimes I catch myself wishing my ex-husband had cheated on me.
It’s a ridiculous thing to say. Betrayal is brutal, but at least it offers a clean line. A single moment you can point to when someone asks what happened. A simple he cheate...
A year later
It has been a while since I wrote here. Partly because something shifted in me, and partly because something shifted around me. I was being harassed, my photos were stolen, my account hacked. Somewhere in all that my sense of safety changed...
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I was raised in excess and married young — now I’m divorced, rebuilding, and writing it all down. These are essays from a life shaped by contradiction, reinvention, and the quiet chaos of becoming someone new.
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