
"The problem that had no name" wasn't just straight. A Substack about midlife, lesbian love, intimacy, and the quiet revolution of claiming your own beauty. Written by a mid-life butch in the Bible Belt.
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Do you ever miss me?
Not me as a person you used to call or sit beside in a classroom, but the version of yourself who could exist with me. The one who was whole and bright and curious. The one who laughed witho...
Recently, I’ve been doing a meditation meant to heal my inner child. In it, I’m supposed to picture her, like really picture he (which took a lot of practice), and with each inhale, gather up her bad feelings...
I have a confession to make: I don’t actually like music. Growing up Evangelical meant I wasn’t allowed to listen to “secular” music or have feelings. So I found myself in the midst of doing the work...
Deep Dive of My Journey Through the Valley of Internalized Homophobia
Introduction to My New Life
I cannot make myself exercise.
I’ve tried every trick: guilt, logic, playlists, even pretending I’m in a montage. Nothing works. My body just… stares back. It’s a standoff now — me and the ghost of every version of myself...
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I write about lesbian selfhood, midlife reinvention, and the healing that becomes possible when we finally stop performing and begin witnessing ourselves. Of course I will pepper in some cultural observations and media critique just for fun.
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