
Desire, bodies, sex, and the small comedies of contemporary life. This newsletter explores gay intimacy, chance encounters, and the stories people tell with their bodies. And yes, there's a lot of sex.
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Welcome to the last weekend of summer!
This week: fatherhood short stories, a very gay New Music Friday and a whole lotta ass to ease us into fall. Plus: join me in Vulture’s Fantasy Movie League with a dedicated mini-league.
[Fair warning: this entry is very explicit, even by The Sexistentialist standard]
Timberland boots, photo by 丹 师
I think about the Pompeii lovers a lot. They hover in the back of my brain, floating entertwined somewhere in my soul, next t...
Welcome to your Saturday!
The (Sexistentia)List has moved: it started on Sundays, but Saturday morning felt right: a latte, hopefully a ray of sinshine, the whole weekend still ahead of us like an unopened gift or an unanswered text.
Th...
The hairy tail brushes against my nose, making me stir. I can still grasp parts of my dream, distant music playing somewhere in my brain. Was I...? The cat walks the length of me, his tiny paws nudging me awake before I can drift back or ca...
Welcome back to the (Sexistentia)List!
This week: a Polish show about sex, drugs and fatherhood, Ellie’s pure submissive filth overshadows Miley, and I fail to get my hands on The Disappearers.
I did not have “falling i...
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Desire, bodies, sex, and the small comedies of gay contemporary life. Half diary, half field notes, this newsletter explores gay intimacy, chance encounters, and the stories people tell with their bodies.
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