Gentlemanly
Sharp truths on dating, danger, and the art of staying cool
| Platform |  | Pricing | Only free issues | Publishes | Daily |
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| Issues | 311 | Founded | 2 years ago | Last Issue | 4 days ago |
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😱 Guys Are MASSIVELY Overthinking Modern Dating
Guys are massively overthinking modern dating. You don’t always need a huge, perfect approach. Sometimes it’s as simple as going up, saying hello, and being in the right place at the right time. Theory is useful — keep it in the background....
The Internet Wants You Angry, Lonely and Distracted - Wake Up!
The internet wants you angry, lonely and distracted. That’s not an accident. Feeds, apps and comment sections are built to keep you scrolling, comparing and stewing instead of going out and talking to real people. In this video I break down...
Yes, Dating Got Expensive. What Are YOU Going To Do About It?
You’re not broke. Modern dating just got more expensive. Expectations around what gets spent have gone up, and a lot of men feel priced out. That’s real — but it’s not the whole story. What still wins in 2026 is X-factor: chemistry, social...
😱 Dating Coaches Are OVERCOMPLICATING Everything – And It’s Ruining Men
Dating coaches are overcomplicating the game and ruining men. Graphs, charts, faux-scientific presentations — most of it is analysis paralysis dressed up as expertise. Strip away the packaging and the actual message is often painfully simpl...
The Brutal Truth: Coffee Dates Are Platonic Death Traps That Lead Nowhere
Coffee dates are a disaster in 2026. They feel platonic, utilitarian and completely lacking in romantic or sexual energy. Coffee shops have a family/hipster vibe that kills attraction before it even starts. In this video I explain why you s...
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