Unshaming
Jowita BydlowskaA companion piece to my memoir Unshaming, here I talk about shame one post at a time. I cover addiction, relationships, sex, recovery, arts and culture. Sometimes when I feel particularly weak, I post work-in-progress.
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Is Cheating a Form of Sexual Assault?
A few years ago, I was researching an article about romantasy – even before the genre really had a name. This was during the pandemic, when much of it was still self-published and existed in the basement of the publishing industry. A lot of...
Dear Wolf
Dear Wolf (originally published in Queen’s Quarterly in 2020)
The Internet says to erase all his texts, delete all the pictures, get rid of the emotional digital evidence.
Sadeyes deletes all the pictures, erases all the texts, all th...
No Conflict, Conflict, and His Crazy Ex-girlfriend
- Writing About My Nice Boyfriend Is Boring
Sometime next year, I’m going to marry this incredible guy. Things are going well, although we are in our second year of a relationship, which I’ve always called The Year of Fight, meaning th...
I Was Determined Not to Become a Bitter Woman
Yovita, the protagonist of Monster, rhapsodises about her love and reverence for men, how much she loves all that is “masculine” and how she “loved being under, how I loved being taken, split open, penetrated, interfered with, invaded, poss...
Should your hubby support your plasticine dreams?
“Why would you expect that from a man just because you’re the creative one? It’s not that special, being an artist is JUST a job. I mean, it’s nice if they’re interested, but most of the time idgaf about what they do at their job so I’ve no...
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Author of five books including Unshaming (Mar 2026), a book about shame, recovery, relapse, failure and hope.
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