Disagree Better
Tammy LenskiDispatches from 30 years of conflict resolution work, to give you the professional edge others neglect: knowing what to do when disagreements go sideways.
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Video: Working with gravity problems in conflict resolution
Nobody loses sleep trying to fix gravity. Yet we spend weeks, months, even years trying to fight conflict problems that are every bit as fixed as gravity.
Gravity problems trap and plague us because we treat them as solvable.
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Ghost fighting
Fred the farmer needed to plow his fields. But his tractor was in the shop, and the repairs weren’t going to be done in time. Fred noticed that his neighbor, Ed, had finished his plowing and decided to ask if he could borrow Ed’s tractor....
Office hours with Tammy, October 2026
How do you recognize you’re at a choice point?
The fog of conflict
Two instincts that backfire when we're facing a difficult conversation.
Reflection prompt #26
On complaining.
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30 years resolving conflict for a living, distilled so you can skip the 30 years and turn handling conflict well into your own career advantage.
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