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A community of love, humor, writing, art & Possibility. I was waiting for someone to give me proof of my life’s worthiness. F*ck that! YOU ARE YOUR OWN PROOF OF LIFE. Here you'll find poetry, art, guest essays, weird ramblings, offerings & OPEN ARMS.

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  • Jennifer Pastiloff

    Jen hates bios. She’s deaf, reads lips, mishears everything (what she hears is funnier.) Best-selling author: On Being Human & Proof Of Life. Painter/ poet/ keynote speaker. Retreats: Ojai, Italy, Writing/creativity workshops online

  • Sarah Hanson

    Weekly letters on rebuilding a life from the storm up, with tenderness, truth, and permission. Author of Conjuring the Hurricane, coming April 2026.

  • Kerry Neville

    Books Essays Palaver \ud83d\udcda Momma May Be Mad: A Memoir, Necessary Lies, & Remember To Forget Me. PhD Fulbright Ireland, \ud83c\udf0a NYer↪️GA but ❤️ ↪️ Luimneach\ud83c\uddee\ud83c\uddea

  • Emily Rapp Black

    Writer, professor, editor, book wizard, tiny business owner. I write sad books but I’m really funny. @circeconsulting #writeforyourlife www.craft-school.net

  • Write Now.

    We are Rise Literary. We write the good fight. Through essay, through fiction, through collective liberation, and radical inspiration, we believe our stories have the ability to unite, ignite, and heal.

  • Hrishikesh Hirway

    singer/songwriter, sometimes film composer, host of Song Exploder, co-host of Home Cooking and The West Wing Weekly.

  • Bill McKibben

    Author, educator, and environmental activist; a founder of 350.org and Third Act.

  • River Selby (they/them)

    Ex-firefighter; PhD candidate; autistic, queer, nonbinary person; hype man in civvies. My memoir, HOTSHOT, is available wherever books are sold.

  • A Pause in Paris

    Exploring midlife, one walk at a time through the City of Lights.

  • Zoe Si

    Cartoonist & illustrator in Vancouver, Canada.

  • Emma Straub

    Emma Straub is the New York Times-bestselling author of seven books for adults and four books for children. She and her husband own Books Are Magic, an independent bookstore in Brooklyn, New York.

  • John Dickerson

    Reporter

  • George Saunders

    Writer, Teacher.

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