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confessions of a parentified eldest daughter

Tatum Fjerstad

I'm doing my best and this is what it looks like. I hope it makes you laugh and weep.

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    I'm a queer, sometimes-sad-often-silly grownup who started out as a child actor and became an acupuncturist who can't sleep without a white noise machine.

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