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Unwritten Social Rules

Nicholas Traherne

The user manual for adults who got an ADHD diagnosis instead of a sports car.

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    ADHD gave me jaw-clenching RSD and savage self-talk over trivial mistakes. There were no protocols for them. So I built my own.

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