Desire In Real Life
Caroline • Desire In Real LifeHonest, nuanced essays about sex, desire, intimacy, and what it means to stay fully alive in long-term love.
| Platform |  | Pricing | Only free issues | Publishes | Twice weekly |
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| Issues | 23 | Founded | 3 months ago | Last Issue | 7 days ago |
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A Look at Mechanisms of Control Over Female Sexuality: How We Made Desire Precious, Protected, & Pathological
For centuries, female sexuality has been treated as a commodity that must be protected, preserved, and contained. It must only be bestowed upon the right person, at the right time, under the right circumstances. It is the flower we are told...
Love Me With Your Eyes Open
Love is a whole-person, mind-body fuck. It demands all of us, every single part.
We are embodied beings. We touch and smell and move. We have magnetism and chemistry, voices and skin, gestures and glances. Our bodies are not merely contain...
Play: Sex Is One of the Last Places We Get to Be Wild
“The moment my feet hit the floor, it’s back to reality,”
I said to my husband, still in bed, waiting for him to bring me some tissues.
Laundry, dinner prep, lunch prep, emails, bills, more laundry. The dance costume, the bike helme...
Pleasure: The Sex Wasn’t Hot. The Pleasure Was.
It was not hot.
That first time having sex after the birth of our first child. Decidedly not hot.
It was not rough or sultry or sweaty. It was not throw-down-and-ravish-one-another-all-night sex. It was neither carefree nor loose. It was...
Performance: Is My Sexual Desire Actually Mine?
The Cool Girl.
That’s the girl I performed for years.
The script called for a girl who was confident in her body. Or, more accurately, a girl who looked confident in her body. (Because I was under the false impression that sexiness wa...
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Sex, desire, marriage, and still wanting someone decades into a relationship. Cultural criticism, research, and glimpses into an 18-year love affair. Sexuality & relationships writer • LICSW • certified sex therapist • wife • mother of three.
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