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  • Caroline • Desire In Real Life

    Sex, desire, intimacy, and still wanting someone decades into a relationship. Feminism, clinical insights, and spicy glimpses into my 18-year love affair. Writer • Clinician • Sex Therapist & Coach • Mom of 3. Individual & Couples Coaching.

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