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Shadows of Control, Dr. Niyati

Shining light on coercive control and domestic abuse, offering clarity, compassion, and community for survivors.

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    Writer, researcher, and mother exposing coercive control, domestic abuse, and post-separation abuse. I blend lived experience with psychology research to bring clarity, tools, and hope for survivors.

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    Psychotherapist and writer exploring how culture shapes women’s lives. I integrate creativity, feminist advocacy, spirituality, and psychology research to explore identity, voice, and truth.

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